- Bullying can happen in school and in the work place.
- Bullying is usually defined as repeated behaviour over time which is intended to hurt someone either emotionally or physically, and is often aimed at certain people because of their appearance, religion, behaviour, disabilities or illness, family, even how well you are doing at school or how popular you are.
- Bullying can lead to self-doubt, lack of confidence, low self-esteem, depression, anxiety and sometimes self-harm. Bullying is repeated or serious; it is harmful to everyone involved, not just the person being bullied.
Actions to hurt, humiliate and intimidate others.
- Making someone trip intentionally
- Sexual harassment or any physical touch without consent
- Abusing someone else’s belongings by taking without permission, stealing, hiding or damaging them in any way
Repeated or systematic verbal abuse.
- Name calling
- Negative remarks regarding
Repeated or systematic social bullying
- Lying about someone (blaming them for a problem)
- Spreading rumours
- Revealing secrets
- Making a fool of someone by playing a nasty joke
- Excluding someone from a group or ostracizing them
Including by means of cyber bullying
- Phones, Texts, SMS, E-mail, Social networking
It is not….
- Sibling rivalry
- Disagreements between friends / not liking someone
- Being left out of an event / discussion
- Crowded corridors or staircases / accidental bumping
- Someone being bossy
- Single jokes about someone else
- Isolated acts of aggression or meanness
Action against bullying
Bullying is more likely to continue if a person keeps quiet and lets the bully have power by staying quiet. Bullies are less likely to bully people who are strong and stand up to them. We will always try to help students with any form of bullying that is reported to us.
- Tell a teacher or your form tutor
- Speak to your Head of Year
- Speak to your Pastoral Manager
- Email [email protected] to report a problem
We address incidents of bullying seriously with both the bully and the victim. We graduate our response to the level of incident and the extent of any repetition. We can however only deal with incidents we know about. It is vital to report bullying.
Bullying outside school:
If the bullying is taking place outside school we can also help you find support from a range of support agencies. For example
- Bullying Online (http://www.bullying.co.uk)
- Bullying.org (http://www.bullying.org)
- Anti-bullying alliance (http://www.anti-bullyingalliance.org.uk)
- Action against Bullying: An anti-bullying service for parents, carers and professionals. The Action Against Bullying Support Line is now available on: 0845 075 1010. Calls will be handled through trained staff members who will provide information and guidance, and referral to other specialist services.